Marital Bliss Within Reach: 9 Bible-based Principles for a Happy Marriage
Marriage, ordained by God, can flourish with these 9 Bible-based principles. Learn how faith, communication, and wisdom can nurture your union.
Written By Lois Peppers // EEW Magazine Online
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Marriage, a beautiful union ordained by God, holds the promise of profound joy and fulfillment. To experience the full beauty of matrimony, there are timeless principles to guide your journey.
While loyalty to God and your spouse, along with integrity, form the foundation of a strong marriage, they are not the only elements that foster a thriving relationship. As a wife or future wife seeking to build a blissful life with your husband, EEW Magazine Online offers these 9 Bible-based principles.
Resolve Conflicts Before Bed.
"In your anger do not sin: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry" (Ephesians 4:26).
Even the strongest marriages face disagreements. When conflicts arise, address them before sleep. Don't let anger fester; resolve issues and reconnect before tomorrow's dawn.
Listen Before Responding.
"Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry" (James 1:19).
True understanding diffuses arguments. Prioritize listening over being heard, and seek your spouse's perspective, even in disagreement.
Speak with Care.
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." (Ephesians 4:29).
Words have the power to heal or wound. Choose yours carefully, as verbal hurt can linger long after apologies.
Act with Wisdom.
"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." (Proverbs 14:1).
Your daily choices shape your home life. Seek God's wisdom to make decisions that strengthen your marriage, even in challenging circumstances.
Couples that listen to each other, respect each other and go out of their way to be kind are shown to experience more joy, happiness and longevity in their marriages. (Credit: Getty/Delmaine Donson)
Guard Your Relationship.
"A prudent man keeps his knowledge to himself, but the heart of fools blurts out folly." (Proverbs 12:23).
While counsel is crucial, not everyone deserves access to your private matters. Discretion protects your union from unnecessary influence and potential harm.
Address Issues, Don't Nag.
"Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." (Proverbs 21:9).
Distinguish between essential concerns and minor annoyances. Grace and understanding are as important as communication in a healthy marriage.
Present a United Front.
"Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand." (Matthew 12:25).
When parenting disagreements arise, resolve them privately. A united front provides security and clarity for your children.
Choose Forgiveness.
"Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32).
Forgiveness is a command, but it doesn't mean enabling toxicity. In healthy conflicts, let go of resentment, just as you've been forgiven by God.
Display God's Character.
"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." (Galatians 5:22-23).
As you walk in the Spirit, His character shapes your interactions. Love, peace, and self-control become the hallmark of your marriage.
While no marriage is without challenges, these 9 principles pave the way to greater happiness and fulfillment. Embrace them, and create a thriving union that reflects God's beautiful design.