Way More than Skin Deep: The Beauty of a Kingdom Woman
Uncover the true essence of beauty as a Kingdom woman, reflecting God’s character and radiating inner grace.
Written By Valorie Kenneth // EEW Magazine Online
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When a woman hears the word "beautiful," she often envisions outward attributes: flawless skin, luscious locks, a shapely figure, and other visible traits that draw the praise of people. But for a woman of God, true beauty runs far deeper than what meets the eye.
It is a radiance that emanates from within, a reflection of her character and the divine beauty bestowed upon her by her Creator. This is the beauty of a Kingdom woman – a beauty that is timeless, powerful, and profoundly impactful.
She Speaks with Wisdom
"She opens her mouth with wisdom, and loving instruction is on her tongue." - Proverbs 31:26 (HCSB)
A Kingdom woman's beauty is evident in her words. She speaks with wisdom, her voice a melody of guidance and grace. Her words are a balm to the souls of those around her, offering comfort, direction, and inspiration. She knows the power of her tongue and uses it to build up rather than tear down, to heal rather than harm. Her speech is a reflection of the wisdom that resides within her, a wisdom imparted by God Himself.
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She Fears the Lord Above All
"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." - Proverbs 31:30 (NIV)
Her reverence for God is the foundation of her beauty. She knows that true beauty is not found in physical appearance, which is fleeting and fading, but in a heart that fears the Lord. This fear is not a cowering dread, but a deep and abiding respect for His power, His love, and His wisdom. It is a recognition of His sovereignty and a surrender to His will. Her fear of the Lord is her highest adornment, making her praiseworthy in His eyes.
She is Diligent and Attentive
"She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness." - Proverbs 31:27 (NIV)
A Kingdom woman is a woman of purpose and action. She is diligent and attentive, carefully tending to her responsibilities with excellence and grace. She knows that her role, whatever it may be, is a sacred trust from God, and she stewards it with care. Her hands are always busy with good works, her heart always focused on serving others. Her diligence is a testament to her character and a reflection of her inner beauty.
“A woman’s ‘Kingdom Beauty’ emanates from within, a reflection of her character and the divine beauty bestowed upon her by her Creator. ”
She is Gracious and Respected
"A gracious woman gains respect." - Proverbs 11:16 (GWT)
Her grace and kindness win her the respect and admiration of others. She moves through life with an effortless elegance, her spirit marked by compassion and generosity. Her words are seasoned with love, her actions with mercy. She knows that true strength lies not in demanding respect, but in earning it through a life of grace and integrity. Her graciousness is her glory, making her a woman worthy of honor.
She is Gentle and Quiet in Spirit
"Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight." - 1 Peter 3:4 (NIV)
In a world that often values boldness and brashness, a Kingdom woman knows the power of gentleness and quietness. Her spirit is at peace, a still and quiet pool reflecting the beauty of God. She is not flashy or boisterous, seeking to draw attention to herself, but rather she is humble and unassuming, pointing always to her Savior. Her inner tranquility is her true adornment, making her beautiful in the eyes of God.
She Extends Her Hand to the Needy
"She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy." - Proverbs 31:20 (NIV)
A Kingdom woman is a woman of compassion and mercy. She sees the needs of those around her and moves to meet them, her hands always extended in love and service. She knows that she is blessed to be a blessing, that God has given to her so that she might give to others. Her heart beats with the heart of her Father, who is a God of justice and compassion. Her willingness to help the needy is a testament to her beautiful character and her love for her Lord.
She Guides the Next Generation
"Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women..." - Titus 2:3-4 (NIV)
A Kingdom woman knows that her life is not just about her own journey, but about the impact she has on those coming behind her. She sees the value in mentoring and guiding the next generation, in passing on the wisdom and knowledge she has gained. She is a spiritual mother, nurturing and discipling younger women with love and grace. Her life is a living testimony of godly womanhood, a light shining in the darkness. Her investment in the lives of others is a beautiful legacy that will outlast her.
Though many other attributes can define a truly beautiful woman, these seven stand out as pillars of her character. Aspiring to this kind of beauty pleases God, brings Him glory, and results in blessings and favor for the woman herself. It is a beauty that is not just about her, but about reflecting the beauty of her King. It is a beauty that is not just for a moment, but for eternity.
